Different Edges

Iron sharpens iron, So one man sharpens another. Proverbs 27:17


I have always quoted this verse with a very common visual image of someone scraping two pieces of metal against one another. True this could be left right where it is and still get a point across. But recently I have realized how shallow a view this is. 


No two relationships are the same. Yes there are similarities within a group of friends, similar likes and common interests etc., but there are certain interactions, mannerisms, understandings that differ from person to person within that group. Never do I or any of them change who they are from relationship to relationship but each one comes with its own nuances. 


Likewise, it is NOT always iron on iron. Each relationship has a different edge to it. Some may be rougher-more direct, to wear down and confront those stubborn tips or habits. Some are finer, not as abrasive to be able to smooth everything even. Some buff and polish with a gentle firmness to get that nice crisp edge. And some polish, they help bring out that glossy shine and put that final touch on ya. 


Question is then, who are your edges? What types of edges do you allow to rub against you? Do they sharpen you? or do they wear you down? And once you find those edges/relationships do you invest that time necessary to remain sharp? Also this goes hand in hand with being open and honest enough to admit what time of edge you are being, do you sharpen or wear down? 


Truly we all have times where we need to be sharpened, don't be hard on yourself when they come. Just always remember to return the favor with grace and mercy.